Men have often been accused of sleeping with anything that moves. What would make a man with a great family, loving wife, and a wonderful home go out there looking for a quick romp? Is it weaker self-control or stronger sexual impulses that drive men to engage in sex trade?

To answer these contentious questions, here are confessions from 4 men different men about why they pay for sex.

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Confessions: Why Do Men Engage in Sex Trade?

Guy 1: I Have A Sexual Fantasy

I have this sexual fantasy and it is a bit overboard depending on whom you ask. I had once shared it my college girlfriend, who later shared it with her friends. Soon word spread that I was a potential serial killer.

From that day on, I swore to keep my sex fantasies to myself. So during this night when I was out with my friends, I met this attractive girl. By met I mean she approached us, or rather me.

Though I consider myself good with women, I was never expecting a 10 to hit on me. We hit it off from the word go. Besides being extremely gorgeous, she was fun and charming.

I fell right off my high horses when she asked me how much I was willing to pay for a good time. I felt offended for a second or two because I had thought, the girl was actually into me. Then without thinking, I muttered the amount in a shaky voice.

She looked squarely at me, for a second and then scoffed, ‘Do I look like a street whore?’ Embarrassed, I asked her what’s her quote. She Said ‘$1000’.

I didn’t respond, I just walked away.

She then said, ‘Not so fast champ, give me a good number.’

I Responded, ‘$100’ this time more confidently.

She walked up right to me, got hold of my necktie and pulled me.

I followed her sheepishly.

After a minute into it, she asked, ‘boy, what’s your kinky ?’ I was hesitant to share. She pressed on. I finally gave her a detailed account of my wild fantasy.

All she said was, “I’ll do anything you want if you double the pay“. I was glad to oblige. However, I started having problems maintaining an erection. It was probably because everything was so mechanical and lacked chemistry.

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When I decided to take a break, she took the opportunity to hit me up for more cash. It hit me it was just a job for her. Turned off, I decided not to go on.

She was quick to ask for cash. I told her I will pay her half price since she didn’t finish the job. She responded, ‘It is not my fault you couldn’t get your tiny **** up.’ I couldn’t wait to hear more, I just paid and left.

I felt that I had demeaned myself. Not for just for paying for services of a sex worker, but also for haggling for the price to a point of getting insulted. That was my first and the last time to pay for sex services.

Guy 2: I Was a 34-Year-Old Virgin

Being shy and more of a nerd and a computer geek, dating has always been hard for me. The few ‘relationships’ I’ve had in high school and college, didn’t turn out well.

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It is only when I turned 30 that it hit me what I was missing out in life: Intimacy, companionship… I decided to give online dating a try. However, the breed of women I met was far from ideal. Most were after financial support, and others were just broken or found me outright boring.

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I know that sounds like outright ‘self-loathing’. The truth is I wasn’t even sure I could even ‘get it up’ when with a woman. “Two decades of jerking off hardcore porn without having a real relationship can do thinks to your brain”. That’s what my shrink told me.

When you add low self-esteem to the mix, my game was poor at its best. I got the idea to try online escort services. However, it took me a whole year to have the guts to follow through.

I opted for a mature woman (10 years older) because she was likely to be patient and also accommodate my lack of experience. Just as you can expect from any first-timer, my performance was dismal. She was nice and didn’t clock watch. I enjoyed her company. I was elated given the fact that I was no longer a virgin.

Since then, I have lost count of times I have paid for sex. This includes a college student who was looking to pay for her tuition without having to be burdened by college debt. Another one was graduate who was in between jobs.

All the girls I have been with are pretty normal. Maybe it’s because I solicit high-end services. Though the experience was meant to be a temporary fix, it has worked so well for me that it has become my way of life.

Guy 3: I was Too Curious For My Own Good

I married a girl I met in the first year of college. I have never had any other relationship in my life. However, I can say I have a happy marriage. The sex is good, and we love each other’s company. I have never imagined in my life that I would take part in sex trade. However, some online ads tempted me to try out a new experience.

The first time I paid for sex services was nerve-racking. However, I got the hang of it. As of now I have, done 27 sessions and counting with different sex workers.

I also got to know how to pick em’. I learn’t to avoid those who seem like they would rather be doing house chores than…

Unfortunately, the only thing that feels good about it the 1 or 2 minutes of climax. The rest is hell. Starting with giving out my hard earned cash to a tune several hundreds of dollars. Then there is also the walk of shame accompanied by that feeling of regret.

I also hate the fact that I have to sneak into the shower to get rid of the residual condom smell, the cheesy perfume, and hairspray. Each time I swear that this is the last time I am seeing a prostitute.

However, after a few days, weeks or months, I always go back. It is like being addicted to some drug. Sometimes I think I need professional help.

Guy 4: I am a celebrity

I know, you are wondering why would a celebrity engage in sex trade or rather go to a prostitute. Furthermore, I am rich and famous; the perfect recipe for having access to an unlimited assortment of women. That’s true; I always meet star-struck ladies who throw themselves to me.

However, there’s a problem. These groupies can be dangerous. Besides contracting a number of STI’s, I’ve had a terrible experience with these socialites, and slay queens. One lady had tried to get herself pregnant. She had preserved my sperm from a used condom in the fridge so that she can claim child support.

I have also had to fight false accusations of rape. Her goal was to get a huge payout from out of court settlement. Others just want to become famous. They are more than willing to share our sex-capade minute by minute with the tabloids. Most want me to support their lavish lifestyle.

Finding real love as a celebrity can be hard. I also have a reputation to protect. These are the major reasons I settle for high-end escorts. They are not only experienced but are also intelligent, gorgeous and most of all, they won’t kiss and tell. Moreover, the high-end sex workers mainly do it because they love their job.

I have even dated a few of them for a month or two. My plan is to keep seeing high-end sex workers until I meet a good woman. I am hoping to eventually have a loving relationship and maybe start a family.

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