Become a Social god: The Ultimate Alpha Male Guide

Over the past few decades, women have been asking, ‘where have the real men gone?’ The 21st-century man has dropped the ball. He has grown tame, wimpy, whiney and raped of his masculinity by modern-day comforts, alcohol, drugs, pornography, video games…just to name a few.

He has had it too easy that he has forgotten what it means to be a man. He has dropped all his ambitions and is driven by quick fixes and the need to run away from reality.

Does this sound like you? If you are in doubt see: 21 Signs You Are Still a Boy, Not A Man! 

Related: Shocking Reasons Why Quarter Life Crisis is Now a Rite of Passage

This may explain why everyone is now crying about the how we are losing the boy child…Simply put, women are wondering where The Alpha Male has gone.

What Is An Alpha Male?

He is the man who other men aspire to be and women yearn to be with. He is a natural leader. He’s got nerves of steel; always confident and calm during a crisis.

He’s laid back until there is an extreme need for action. When he acts, he does it with a bang, thus everyone can’t help respect him. He is not afraid to rock the boat, to take a calculated risk, and to stand out and be exceptional.

Also read: How To Change Your Mind To Achieve Time and Financial Freedom

There exists a misconception about alpha male characteristics. Often people think that an alpha male has to be loud, physically imposing, and domineering. These characteristics do not make you a real man.

How To Become An Alpha Male

Now that you’ve understood what an alpha male is, here are 33 steps that will help you unleash the alpha in you:

1. Respect women: they go through and can handle much more than you can including up to 24 hours of bone-crushing labor.

2. You should hit your woman! Yes, I said it.

I know someone is wondering, ‘didn’t you just say respect women?’ Did I forget to mention that too much respect, or being too nice will get you into the dreaded ‘Friend’s zone’ or even worse Bro zone?

When you hit her in the right place, in the right way, and at the right moment, she will love you for it. This art might take time to master so tread carefully; physical abuse is out of the question.

3. Be a gentleman, always let the woman cum first. If you can’t do that, read this: Are Our Men Getting Sexually Weaker? – Erectile Dysfunction

4. The number of beers you can drain down your throat in one night is not an indicator of manliness. It is a sign of incipient alcoholism, lost jobs, broken family…One, two or three beers are enough if you have to.

5. When you find a good woman who understands you and fulfills you, keep her and keep her happy. Such is a rare breed these days.

6. If she asks ‘Do I look fat in this dress?’ The answer is always a resounding NO!

7. You can’t win the war of words with a woman, especially in public. It is as stupid as carrying a knife to a gun fight.

8. Other men (especially your friends) lie and/or exaggerate about everything and anything. From, how he slapped sense into her thick head, to how he got rich overnight…follow their advice blindly at your own peril. Have your own mind that can make independent decisions and that cannot be easily swayed.

9. Forget the girls, they will just scatter the little you have, focus on one great lady and she will help you build your empire. 

10. Always act like you have met the person before or you have been there before.

11. Alcohol doesn’t change you; it just amplifies who you really are.

Remember that accountant in your office that everyone thought was shy? Until he proved everyone wrong at the end of the year party after having a little too much to drink. …He hit on your lady boss, broke a few glasses, flashed the middle finger at everyone and was eventually kicked out after he started yelling names of those that have been sleeping around to climb the cooperate ladder.

Moral of the story: Every man goes through frustrations, how he handles them is what defines him.

12. If your dreams fall short of building your own empire, you need to revisit them ASAP!

13. Teach everyone around you to respect you, including your woman. I don’t care, die for your respect! It is absolutely important.

14. Don’t wear your emotions on your sleeve. Don’t be an open book, keep them guessing by keeping calm and keeping your cards close to the chest, revealing and acting only when it is necessary.

16. Ignore the haters – they just wish they were you.

17. Child support is not a cake walk, so is syphilis and herpes…condoms are your best friend!

18. “A little more sleep, a little more slumber, a little more folding of the arms to rest and poverty will creep upon you like a bandit” – the Bible says so.

19. Break a sweat in the gym, they call it love hurdles (the pot belly) for a good reason. Read: How To Stop Being a Couch Potato

20. The days of porn and masturbation should be behind you by now. Get a woman who fulfills you.

21. Aspire to look 10 years or 20 years younger than you really are. See How to Look Decades Younger: People Who Age Like Fine Wine

22. Is she hot? Is she super stylish? Does she have her life together? Does she have a great job? Does she have a great personality? Does she have an awesome car? If the answer to half of those questions is yes, then she is out of your league bro. Yet still, with your heart pounding out your chest, walk up to her and say, ‘hey girl you look beautiful!’…It is upon you to figure out the rest.

This should apply in every other aspect of your life.

Moral of the story: Always play out of your league! Push the limits! Get out of your comfort zone! Soon you will discover that no leagues are out of reach!

23. When invited to a party, show up with a bottle of something.

24. Be passionate about something, even if it is catching butterflies.

24b. Be exceptional at something: Learn a skill you will be proud of the rest of your life.

25. If you have something to say, say it right to their face, not behind their backs!

26. Always dress to impress – outfits don’t match, they go together.

27. Become a ravenous reader, they call it food for thought for a good reason.

28. Though violence is frowned upon, learn to defend yourself and those you love even if it means getting into a fist fight.

29. Talk less and listen more – the Alpha male teaches a few but learns from everyone.

30. Seek opportunity and not security. Boys settle for the latter, that’s why they get stuck in that dead-end job or relationship for years on end.

31. If she earns more than you do, rejoice! Use her money to make the family a fortune.
32. Have self-discipline. Having all that but lacking self-discipline means that; you are just a mighty warrior about to fall from his high horses.

33. Live by your own terms; remember “Rules are for the guidance of real men and for the obedience of the fools”.

This is not just about becoming a Social god, or sweeping women off their feet. It is meant to teach every man out there how to become a man of substance. It also teaches you how to unleash the alpha male in you, how to attain the ultimate success and how to lead a life free of fear and anxiety.