Men have often been accused of sleeping with anything that moves. What would make a man with a great family, loving wife, and a wonderful home go out there looking for a quick romp? Is it weaker self-control or stronger sexual impulses that drive men to engage in sex trade?<\/p>\n
To answer these contentious questions, here are confessions from 4 men different men about why they pay for sex.<\/p>\n
Related:\u00a0How Unhealthy Daddy Issues Ruin Your Sex Life<\/a><\/p>\n Also Read:\u00a0Why An Office Wife Is The Greatest Threat To Your Marriage<\/a><\/p>\n I have this sexual fantasy and it is a bit overboard depending on whom you ask. I had once shared it my college girlfriend, who later shared it with her friends. Soon word spread that I was a potential serial killer.<\/p>\n From that day on, I swore to keep my sex fantasies to myself. So during this night when I was out with my friends, I met this attractive girl. By met I mean she approached us, or rather me.<\/p>\n Though I consider myself good with women<\/a>, I was never expecting a 10 to hit on me. We hit it off from the word go. Besides being extremely gorgeous, she was fun and charming.<\/p>\n I fell right off my high horses when she asked me how much I was willing to pay for a good time. I felt offended for a second or two because I had thought, the girl was actually into me. Then without thinking, I muttered the amount in a shaky voice.<\/p>\n She looked squarely at me, for a second and then scoffed, \u2018Do I look like a street whore<\/em>?\u2019 Embarrassed, I asked her what\u2019s her quote. She Said \u2018$1000\u2019.<\/p>\n I didn\u2019t respond, I just walked away.<\/p>\n She then said, \u2018Not so fast champ, give me a good number<\/em>.\u2019<\/p>\n I Responded, \u2018$100<\/em>\u2019 this time more confidently.<\/p>\n She walked up right to me, got hold of my necktie and pulled me.<\/p>\n I followed her sheepishly.<\/p>\n After a minute into it, she asked, \u2018boy, what\u2019s your kinky<\/em> ?\u2019 I was hesitant to share. She pressed on. I finally gave her a detailed account of my wild fantasy.<\/p>\n All she said was, “I\u2019ll do anything you want if you double the pay<\/em>“. I was glad to oblige. However, I started having problems maintaining an erection. It was probably because everything was so mechanical and lacked chemistry.<\/p>\n A Must Read:\u00a0Are Our Men Getting Sexually Weaker?<\/a><\/p>\n When I decided to take a break, she took the opportunity to hit me up for more cash. It hit me it was just a job for her. Turned off, I decided not to go on.<\/p>\n She was quick to ask for cash. I told her I will pay her half price since she didn\u2019t finish the job. She responded, \u2018It is not my fault you couldn\u2019t get your tiny **** up<\/em>.\u2019 I couldn\u2019t wait to hear more, I just paid and left.<\/p>\n I felt that I had demeaned myself. Not for just for paying for services of a sex worker, but also for haggling for the price to a point of getting insulted. That was my first and the last time to pay for sex services.<\/p>\n Being shy and more of a nerd and a computer geek, dating has always been hard for me. The few \u2018relationships\u2019 I\u2019ve had in high school and college, didn\u2019t turn out well.<\/p>\n Read:\u00a021 Signs You Are Still A Boy, Not A Man!<\/a><\/p>\n It is only when I turned 30 that it hit me what I was missing out in life: Intimacy, companionship\u2026 I decided to give online dating a try. However, the breed of women I met was far from ideal. Most were after financial support, and others were just broken or found me outright boring.<\/p>\n A Must Read:\u00a07 Worrying Signs She\u2019s A Crazy Bitch Who\u2019ll Ruin Your Life<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n I know that sounds like outright \u2018self-loathing\u2019. The truth is I wasn\u2019t even sure I could even \u2018get it up\u2019 when with a woman. \u201cTwo decades of jerking off hardcore porn without having a real relationship can do thinks to your brain<\/em>\u201d<\/span>. That\u2019s what my shrink told me.<\/p>\n When you add low self-esteem to the mix, my game was poor at its best. I got the idea to try online escort services. However, it took me a whole year to have the guts to follow through.<\/p>\n I opted for a mature woman (10 years older) because she was likely to be patient and also accommodate my lack of experience. Just as you can expect from any first-timer, my performance was dismal. She was nice and didn\u2019t clock watch. I enjoyed her company. I was elated given the fact that I was no longer a virgin.<\/p>\n Since then, I have lost count of times I have paid for sex. This includes a college student who was looking to pay for her tuition without having to be burdened by college debt. Another one was graduate who was in between jobs.<\/p>\n All the girls I have been with are pretty normal. Maybe it\u2019s because I solicit high-end services. Though the experience was meant to be a temporary fix, it has worked so well for me that it has become my way of life.<\/p>\n I married a girl I met in the\u00a0first year of college. I have never had any other relationship in my life. However, I can say I have a happy marriage<\/a>. The sex is good, and we love each other\u2019s company. I have never imagined in my life that I would take part in sex trade. However, some online ads tempted me to try out a new experience.<\/p>\n The first time I paid for sex services was nerve-racking. However, I got the hang of it. As of now I have, done 27 sessions and counting with different sex workers.<\/p>\n I also got to know how to pick em\u2019. I learn\u2019t to avoid those who seem like they would rather be doing house chores than\u2026<\/p>\n Unfortunately, the only thing that feels good about it the 1 or 2 minutes of climax. The rest is hell. Starting with giving out my hard earned cash to a tune several hundreds of dollars. Then there is also the walk of shame accompanied by that feeling of regret.<\/p>\n I also hate the fact that I have to sneak into the shower to get rid of the residual condom smell, the cheesy perfume, and hairspray. Each time I swear that this is the last time I am seeing a prostitute.<\/p>\n However, after a few days, weeks or months, I always go back. It is like being addicted to some drug. Sometimes I think I need professional help.<\/p>\n I know, you are wondering why would a celebrity engage in sex trade or rather go to a prostitute. Furthermore, I am rich and famous<\/a>; the perfect recipe for having access to an unlimited assortment of women. That\u2019s true; I always meet star-struck ladies who throw themselves to me.<\/p>\nConfessions: Why Do Men Engage in Sex Trade?<\/h2>\n
Guy 1: I Have A Sexual Fantasy<\/h3>\n
Guy 2: I Was a 34-Year-Old Virgin<\/h2>\n
Guy 3: I was Too Curious For My Own Good<\/h3>\n
Guy 4: I am a celebrity<\/h3>\n